ABOUT ME
What I can
do for you
I am Ayomide Synesis, the Director of Synesis Solutions. I have been coaching for 7+ years both formally and informally.
I’m a Certified Transformative Healing Coach and Relationship Specialist based in New York, USA. I help visionaries identify and heal from their childhood trauma, in order to enjoy true and fulfilling love, and thrive in their God-given purpose. My work is centered on guiding individuals and couples toward emotional healing, self-discovery, purpose execution, and endless transformation.
We are all created with a divine purpose, and no matter what challenges or traumas we’ve endured, I believe we’re capable of healing and living the abundant life God has destined for us.
My Story
Growing up, I always felt the weight of expectations. I internalized messages about my worth being tied to my body, my achievements or how well I fit into certain cliques. On the outside, it seemed like I had life figured. People thought I came from a perfect family, I had the perfect confidence and I spoke in big rooms. But beneath the surface, I carried wounds from unresolved childhood trauma that left me feeling unworthy, disconnected, and deeply insecure. (So I know what it feels to be weighed down by trauma, yet, doing “BIG” things!)
I wanted to fit in so badly that I would buy unnecessary gifts just to seek validation from people even when they didn’t respect me. I would do things that weren’t reflections of my true self because I didn’t even know myself, I was living for the praises and appraisals of people. I would lower my standards to accommodate men that were not even on my radar (spiritually and mentally) or men that treated me like crap, just because they looked physically built and attractive, and I wanted people to think I bagged the most powerful men.
I believed all men cheat, so I would try to fix men, I thought I needed to serve men my body by looking “hot” to hold them down, so I would wear provocative clothes despite them not being married to me. I was so insecure that I would let people talk down on me in private, even though I was very defensive publicly. Low self esteem and trauma were eating deeply into me. I had built so many coping and defensive mechanisms to cover the patterns of my dysfunctionality.
It wasn’t until I faced my own reckoning, a season of brokenness, painful neglect, and burnout that I truly began my healing journey. I had to confront the traumas I’d buried, embrace my imperfections, and reconnect with my inner self through God’s love and grace. This journey of healing wasn’t linear, but it was transformative.
Today, I am not just healed; I am also thriving. I have embraced my multidimensional personality and I have dedicated my life to helping others like you find the same freedom, joy, and fulfillment that comes from embracing their authentic selves and aligning with God’s purpose for their lives.
If my journey sounds like what you are facing right now, then you should book a FREE call with me NOW.
Certifications & Training
- Certified Coaching to Improve Self Esteem
- Fully Accredited Professional Relationship Coach Diploma
- Fully Accredited Emotional Intelligence Coach Diploma
- Trauma-Informed Care Certification Program
- Degree in Communications, SUNY, USA.
- Social & Behavioral Research, CITI Group
